The
trope of the child has a visible presence in literature the
world over. However, as far as critical attention is concerned,
there is a lot to be done. Jacques Derrida writes: "man
calls himself man only by drawing limits excluding his other
from the play of supplementarity; the purity of nature, of
animality, primitivism, childhood, madness divinity".
A definition of man would then involve the binary who is not
animal, not primitive, not a child, not mad and is not god.
The child is man's early stage and is hence, in a less privileged
position. According to Philippe (1962), childhood was recognized
as a category recently in the history of mankind in the Western
world. In other words, it was created or constructed recently.
This was the result of changes occurring in an industrialized
and scientific world.
The
concept of childhood is as varied in cultures as child-rearing
practices. In most cultures the parents or adults are the
providers, hence are superior to the dependent child. Although
the hierarchy of domination of adults over children has its
very dark sides, such as child abuse, neglect, child exploitation
and misuse, and indoctrination, this structure provides the
only means of protection and nurturing necessary within the
structure of society. As children were beginning to be `discovered'
(or invented), they were also simultaneously and perhaps inevitably
subject to more specific attempts to conquer and control them.
Adults are childhood's `other' and childhood is adult's `other'. In
the Western world, the concept of the child has been historicised
by Philippe Aries and Llyod (1975). Both hold the opinion
that the further in history one goes back, the lower is the
level of childcare and nurturing. With industrialization and
the development of the nuclear family, contraception and birth
control, the importance of the child in the family slowly
gained momentum. Improving quality of life was the call of
the industrializing world. This had a direct bearing on the
child, making society more and more child-centered, especially
through the education. With scientific study of humans and
children, and a general interest in the child's education,
a new outlook towards children developed. Freud proposed the
theory that childhood had to be survived because of the materialistic
subjectivity of modern life. "It is the modern childhood-which-survives-childhood
from which Freud sought to liberate civilization". Freud
attributed conflict to man's instinctual demands and society's
restrictions through culture, post-Freudian thought begs to
differ believing that every child is born with the ability
to assimilate the culture into which he is born. All cultural
traditions are internalized in childhood through the superego.
All societies have an ideal adult character towards which
they train and mould their children. All rewards and punishments
are training towards attaining this ideal. Human behavior
is learnt in this way. These become the habits of the later
adult; hence all childhood experiences are important in relation
to the making of the adult identity. |