Emotional abuse is an assault on the child’s psyche, just as physical abuse is an
assault on the child’s body.1 Children are the citizens of tomorrow. It is the duty of
every country to ensure that the children are healthy and develop in a holistic manner
and not be a burden to the society. Right to good health is an important component of
Right to life2 which is guaranteed by the Constitution of India. The most important
International Convention which focuses on the rights of children is the International
Convention on Rights of the Child popularly known as the CRC. It emphasizes on the
protection of rights of children, which includes the basic rights to life, health and
development of children.3 Though this convention lays down that no child should be sexually abused, it does not mention about child emotional abuse. Further, in India,
we do not have any legislation which deals with child emotional abuse directly. When
a child is emotionally abused it affects his health, his right to life and dignity. Child
emotional abuse has failed to gather the required attention and hence faces many
hurdles relating to solving the issue. Further, there are other impediments in dealing
with it, as it is difficult to assimilate the causes, evidence regarding the abuse, extent
of abuse, etc. Child emotional abuse does not result in physical evidence such as
bruising or malnutrition, hence it is very hard to diagnose it. Child emotional abuse is
a problem which has spread to a large extent in the society. It is very important to deal
with emotional abuse of children as it is a serious problem and can be more damaging
than physical abuse. Child emotional abuse can have long-lasting effects on the psyche
of the child and this in turn may be detrimental to the society. Verbal harassment in the
form of criticism, threats, rejection, ridicule, etc., are the different ways in which a
child may be emotionally abused. Abuse can also take the form of being neglected,
which may include both lack of physical caretaking and supervision and also failure
on the part of the parents and caretakers to deal with the developmental needs of
children in terms of their cognitive stimulation. Rejection and ill-treatment are the
components of emotional child abuse. Victims of abuse often complain of fear, anxiety,
loneliness, lack of emotional support and powerlessness when terrorized or tormented
by parents and caretakers. The popular slogan, “words can hit as hard as fists” is true
when hurtful words are often used, and they mean to hurt.4 Gestures, the tone of voice,
manner, frequency and intensity of the words in a relationship also convey that the
child is not being appreciated or loved and amounts to emotional child abuse. Being
highly critical, not giving him emotional support and being hostile and low on warmth
is also emotional child abuse.
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