People have a veritable self that requires favorable conditions to be actualized.
When they are motivated by their defensive strategies instead of their genuine feelings,
they become alienated from their real selves. Karen Horney is perhaps the first
humanistic psychoanalyst who worked on this phenomenon. She divided defensive strategies
into two kinds: interpersonal, which we use in our dealings with other people, and
intra-psychic, which we employ in our own minds. The central feature of neurosis is alienation from
the real self because of oppressive forces in the environment. The real self is not a
fixed entity but a set of intrinsic potentialities including temperament, talents, capacities
and predispositions that are part of our genetic makeup and need a favorable environment
in which to evolve. It is not a product of learning, because one cannot be taught to
be oneself; but neither is it impervious to external influence, because it is actualized
through interactions with an external world that can show many ways of development.
While interpersonal difficulties create the moves toward, against, and away from people and
the conflicts between them, concomitant intra-psychic problems produce their own
defense strategies. Self-idealization generates what Horney calls the `pride system', which
includes neurotic pride, neurotic claims, tyrannical shoulds, and increased self denigration.
The principal characters in Fire on the
Mountain, Nanda Kaul, Raka and Ila Das drift between the two planeson an outer plane they grapple with the
interpersonal relationships that take a neurotic turn and deny them contentment in relationships; on
an inner plane, they fight within with the intra-psychic problems that pose challenges
and disquiet, and compel them to adopt certain defense mechanisms that lend respite from
the seething and simmering self. The idealized image created as a consequence,
generates the pride system which becomes a kind of Frankenstein's monster that hates and seeks
to destroy its creator. This pride system affects how we interact with others. It poisons
all our relationships and makes it extremely difficult for them to be a source of healing
or growth. |