As more and more people are becoming success concious, they are taking to self-help books. But relying on them doesn't seem to really help.
Last week I was with my friend at the Connaught Place market in Delhi. We were about to leave the market when it started raining heavily. Just to avoid the rain, we entered a book shop where we found a great collection of self-help books with titles like: You Can Win, Born to Win, Power Unleashed, Seven Steps to Success, to name a few. All these titles sound very impressive and are compelling enough for anyone and everyone to purchase them, especially if they are trying to make their lives successful. While I was skimming through the pages of one of the books, my friend asked me if I had read You Can Win by Shiv Khera. I said, "Yes I have read it."
He further asked me if the book had helped. Surprised, I asked him why the question. He replied in a low voice that he had read many such books by various authors, but they never actually helped him. His remark ignited my thought process and I began to ponder if that was true. Do self-help books help? By this time, the rain had subsided and we left for our homes. But the question remained at the back of my mind. Why don't self-help books help? I asked my friends, colleagues and others who read them, and very interestingly, the observation was that 9 out of 10 people felt that self-help books do not help. |