Society is a complex web of interactions, in which an individual should be able to
get along with people in a harmonious manner. This is the foundation of Social
Intelligence (SI). Edward Thorndike defines social intelligence as "the ability to understand
and manage men and women, boys and girls, to act wisely in human
relations". SI can be assessed, expressed and developed. A simple description of SI is:
" the ability to get along well with others and to get them to cooperate with
you".
There are two literary meanings for the terms `social' and `intelligence'. Social
here means not parties or hangovers, but it means social relationships and
interactions. Intelligence here means not possessing high IQ, but the ability to efficiently manage
social relationships and interactions, because social interactions happen every time
everywhere in the society and this makes the life move smoothly. Therefore, both put together,
the main characteristic features of SI are one's efficiency and competence to express
love, understanding and respect for fellow beings. It is a kind of intentional and
planned social awareness and social responsibility. Cantor and Kihlstrom (1987) redefined
SI as the individual's fund of knowledge about the social world. |